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How to know if u really love someone


Figuring out whether you're actually in love can seem intimidating, but don't worry! We've done the research, and for most people, the best way to figure out if you're in love or not is to step back and view your relationship objectively. Once you figure out how this person affects your emotions, think about how you act around them. Are you extra generous, willing to go the extra mile, and genuinely thrilled about their successes?

It could be love!

Reader Approved Why choose wikiHow? It also received 34 testimonials from readers, earning it our reader approved badge. Retrace how your emotions developed. Think back to when you first met your crush. Try to recall if you still feel the same or if your feelings have grown since then.

Love, on the other hand, increases over time from mere attraction to something deeper.

Make a list of pros and cons. Seeing your reasons on paper might help you to better assess your feelings. Make each side as long as you can.

Write down everything that comes to mind. Evaluate whether those reasons are trivial or significant.

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